Do You Have a Stalker?

Do you have a stalker?

Definition: stalking is a crime of power and control. Stalking is conservatively defined as “a course of conduct directed at a specific person that involves repeated (two or more occasions) visual or physical proximity,  communication, or verbal, written, or implied threats, or a combination thereof, that would cause a reasonable person fear.”

Behaviors to watch for
 Unwanted items given to you or presents that may range from romantic to bizarre
 Following or lying in wait for you
 Damaging or threatening to damage your property,
 Defaming or lying about your character,
 Harassing you on the Internet by posting personal information or spreading rumors

You never know when it’s finally over. A stalker may find a new victim, continue for years, or escalate.

Ways for women to finally stop a stalker
Devise strategies to stop your stalker. Most strategies will require you to make sacrifices. To protect yourself, you must be clever, patient, and ultimately outsmart the stalker.
Modify your routine—routs to work or school, shop in new places, change your schedule ritual—never be predictable
Install security Products—simple Electronic to suit your unique needs and budget to stop a stalker.
If you are living in fear, you may need to move, change jobs, or even relocate to another state. Leave no trail for the stalker to follow.

The key to stop a stalker is in outlasting him. If his efforts to connect with you or hear your voice never pay off, he’ll eventually tire of you and target a new woman to haunt

Below is a website devoted to dark poetry.
This poem depicts the thoughts of a stocker. The words are both fascinating and frightening.
If you dare to take a closer look, copy this address to Darker Poetry.
http://www.darkpoetry.com/node/work/19910
Information from National Institute of Justice

http://www.nij.gov/topics/crime/stalking/Pages/welcome.aspx